this isn’t a new or hot take or anything but the current trend of people just recording strangers in public is so fucking annoying and low key terrifying. the fact that someone can decide that i’m moving weird at the grocery store and record a video of me and get it reposted by barstool sports or whatever on tiktok makes me want to maul someone
and i want to give grace to friends who have kids bc i dont but i know they take a lot of time and energy but this friends kids are in high school and middle school. they can start cooking dinner sometimes
dear god please let our new baby octopus feel confident enough to move out of her corner hiding spot today while i’m on exhibits so i can see her properly for the first time amen
she stuck out a single arm before changing her mind and deciding the rest of the tank is too scary, far too scary by far she is scared
The goal of femininity is not to look better, it’s to signal your willingness to oblige to men.
all the different varieties of femininity from every time and place involve routines that are painful, time consuming, expensive, and restrict your ability to partake in everyday activities. you’re suffering and spending time and money to make yourself less able to partake in activities beyond sitting around indoors acting like an ornament.
